The Day After…

Posted: February 15, 2018 in Blog
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Valentines day, baa-hum-bug! It is not as though I don’t have a special someone to love, nor is it that I’m into airing grief. Those who grind their axes in regularly scheduled  complaint sessions are often filled with sarcastic whining, but mostly it is faithless jesting, which are both contrary to walking by faith in Jesus Christ.

Back to Valentines day, it is just silly. One must sacrifice a card & chocolates upon the alter of St. Valentine or suffer wrath. If this ritual isn’t kept the gods of feminist idealism pronounce the worthlessness of man, at which time he must be slain in the public eye for being an unfeeling brute. It is curious to note in this age of equality, women don’t have the same demand placed upon them during this day. It is as though the differences between men and women are embraced when… Sorry, I digress.

Don’t worry, I’m taking my wife to dinner. We will go and hang out, catch up, and enjoy each other when we get time, and by God’s grace we have had sixteen years of making time for regular hang outs. Lord willing and the creek don’t rise, I’m gonna spend time with my favorite person on the planet. That’s why I may buy a card, or get chocolates, or get flowers, cause she is awesome, not because it is a mandate upon which I’ll suffer the wrath of cultural expectation if I don’t comply. The mopey wife doesn’t illicit fear in me to produce a bouquet of flowers. The insistence of a fallen notion of love and the consumer driven ideal has no power here! valentines-day-memes-15

There is a complexity to love that is beyond our ability to comprehend. A scheduled day, oddly tied to a martyr, where we submit to the cultural pressure, cannot even begin to plumb the depths of love. Some may take issue with this statement. However, if said objectors define love by the pretense of Hollywood, modern pop psychology, the latest Oprah show, or a juggling monkey down at MiniMart; then I’m not too far off, mankind has difficulty understanding the complexity of genuine love.

Love is not defined by a feeling at any give moment, or a gift given in that moment, or even by the favor of a person in any given circumstance. Favor can be given, as well as a gifts without genuine love. If love were defined in such a manner, as stuff given and favor presented in a particular moment, which experience demonstrates is fleeting, there would be as much comfort and joy as being locked in a closet with an orangutan using a slide whistle. Let that image sink in for a minute…

Love is complex, like so many other things, because it has perversions and counterfeits. But it is also complex because genuine love does not stem from the emotive center of a person, which is how so many people intuitively identify love. On the contrary, genuine-Christ-like-love is decisive action leading the heart to feel a particular way. This manner of love for others could never be achieved apart from the person Jesus Christ.

That’s enough about what love is and what it is not, let’s get down to the brass tacks. Whether it be for your sweetheart, or your neighbor, or your sworn enemy – Let love be genuine. Don’t let love be a put on, don’t let it be a facade to satisfy the cultural gods. That isn’t from faith, but it becomes a form of religious pretense. Do the faith-filled-God-empowered-Jesus-loving-hard-work of being a genuinely loving person. The depth of genuine love is beyond the scope of strong feelings toward someone. Love is not founded in general niceness, or mutual affirmation. .

So how do you love someone who doesn’t like you, or support you, or who isn’t nice to you, or who hurts you? How do you love those you don’t like, or support, or whom you haven’t been nice? Or how do you love the ones who are closest to you? The answer is simple. Look to Christ, the manner of love he gave, the manner of love He calls us to, and the manner of love He empowers.

Romans 12:9-10, “Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good. Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.”

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